Sunday, July 6, 2014

Tyringham weekend

Amy organized a weekend at my dad's place with a bunch of my friends from Brown over the fourth of July holiday to celebrate my 50th birthday; it was fun to get-together. Especially nice to see all of the kids, many of whom I have not seen since they were tiny (or never seen at all). We were able to entice Cheryl to come up from New York (not an easy thing to do!); Dave & Kirsten + offspring drove up from CT and John came over from Colgate (a long haul) with his two kids. Amy Ethan Lydia & I drove up early Friday morning; Rustin also came for the weekend. The Brown grads:



The weather Friday was essentially hurricane "leftovers" -- very heavy rain, lots of wind. We didn't spend a lot of time outside, but there were plenty of indoor entertainments. Amy and Dave in the kitchen:


John:


Cheryl and Dave:


Here are the kids playing "Telestrations":





Before dinner:


We also piled into the bedroom upstairs and watched the world cup soccer semifinals; nail-biting stuff.

We had some wonderful meals; Amy had organized the food down to the last detail, with some things brought from Lexington, some things cooked on the spot, and a few things ordered ahead from Guido's. Thebirthday cake she made was fantastic (very complicated and tricky to prepare; not sure I would have attempted it) -- Swiss Broyage layers, pastry cream filling, ganache topping, with a dusting of nuts on the sides. Yum.

Lasers and sparklers after dinner:



Saturday we strapped the canoe to the top of my dad's car and headed up to the pond for a canoeing/swimming expedition-- weather was really nice (clear and sunny, not too hot). When we arrived at the pond there was a garter snake who had taken up residence on the top of the raft, and didn't seem to want to be disturbed. The kids waved their arms and made threatening motions, but it didn't budge. We eventually convinced it to vacate by spraying it with water.


Hey-- toss me that canoe paddle!


Fooling around on the raft:


Canoeing:


More canoeing:


More birthday nonsense-- Ethan and Lydia created a music video: a take-off of a Katy Perry song:


Hope the link works (if not let me know). Dave/John/Cheryl put together a slide show of ancient photos from Brown (most of which I am not posting to the blog-- maybe some other time :-). Here is one of my doing my best Patrick Swayze impression:



Heh. Other assorted members of the gang (taken in Cheryl's apartment):



It was a nice weekend... I think everyone had a good time.









Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Driving in Cars with Teenagers

Ethan has been learning how to drive this summer. We signed him up for a "driver's ed" course earlier this spring and he went to get his learner's permit around the point where he was finishing up school. At first he wasn't really all that interested in driving, but after only a couple of sessions behind the wheel his outlook changed and he is now enthusiastic about the prospect of getting his license. Picture:



So far he's been doing well; there have only been a few yelps/shrieks/gasps from the parent sitting beside him. He keeps an eye on the family driving and always volunteers to drive when we're about to head out somewhere. When you are rummaging around in the kitchen looking for grocery bags and trying to add the last few items to the list, he will often pop up out of nowhere and ask "May I drive?". Not quite sure yet when he will take the actual exam; we will have to figure out if he has a weekend free this fall when he can fit it in.


Sunday, June 8, 2014

Playing soccer over 50

This year I decided to sign up at long last for one of the over-50 soccer teams here in Lexington. I was recruited by my friend YuJin, who has had his eye on me for the last few years (common refrain -- "when is it again that you turn 50?"). Although I've resisted the idea of playing in the competitive leagues for a long time, I finally decided give it a try. It's been a good 20 years or so since I did any real "organized" team play, so I felt a bit rusty with some aspects of the game... in general though it wasn't too hard to pick it up again.

My team is the "Lexington Golden Eagles"; we play in the "New England Over-The-Hill Soccer League" (not a joke, this is the actual name). Our squad has about 17 or so guys; we usually have 3 or 4 subs for each game (a pretty important requirement for playing at this age, especially for midfielders). So far I have been playing forward and center midfield; way back when I played in my 20s it was mostly left midfield, so I seem to have gravitated towards the middle in my old age for some reason.

Here are some photos from the game this morning. I'm the guy with the weird looking headband and sunglasses. The headband is kind of mandatory -- if I don't have something like that my glasses get totally messed up from sweat.

Photos (taken by Ethan, who turned out along with Amy and Lydia to watch the second half of this match):



My team-mate YuJin, playing on the wing:

 

More random photos from the game. Quality of the officiating can sometimes be a bit uneven, as you might expect. Here is YuJin throwing up his hands after being called off-sides (there is no linesmen in these games):



Defensive stalwart Ron:


Heads up-- here it comes:

 

Here is John, one of the guys who plays forward. He's also new to the team as of this spring. This is kind of an interesting shot-- John is pretending that he doesn't entirely have control over the ball to pull in the defender; immediately after the photo he turned and took off down the sideline leaving the defender in the dust. Stealth and sneakiness-- maybe not really a substitute for 20-year-old legs, but it's about all we have.


 A cross into the middle-- luckily there was nobody on the other end:


There is a certain amount of pushing and shoving and people losing their tempers in these games, especially in the second half when people are tired (the "grumpy old men" come out). I definitely get more bruises than when I play pickup, but so far (knock on wood) we haven't had many injuries.

We won this match 2-0; I scored in the first half and John added a goal shortly afterwards. Here we are after the game:





State track meet

Lydia and the Diamond track team drove out to compete at the State-level middle school track meet held this weekend-- some photos from the outing. Ethan wasn't able to come along this time; even though school is officially over for him, he was tied up with musical performances for graduation ceremonies. After putting Lydia on the bus at 7:30am Sat morning, Amy and I dropped Ethan off at Andover and then we headed west to Fitchburg, specifically the track at Fitchburg Staet University. Sunny and warm, maybe a little warmer than one would like for an athletic event, but it wasn't too unpleasant.

Lots of kids and parents at the event-- Lydia told me that it was a total of 1500 students (6th-8th grade) competing, plus probably an equal number (if not more) parents and family members watching. Photo of the stands:




It was an all-day deal-- races started at 10am and through to the last 4x400 relay at 5+ish. There were something like 80 schools at the event,  partitioned into "large", "medium", and "small" school divisions. Diamond is part of the "large school" division. Here is one of Lydia's teammates competing in the high jump:


Boys 100 yard dash, one of the innumerable heats:


Photo from the girl's mile (one of the heats), one of Lydia's 7th grade friends competing. There was unusually stiff competition in the girls 1-mile and 400m events this year for some reason.


Here is Lydia running in her 400 heat; one of the fastest but not quite the top one (her seed time was a 1:09):






Lydia won her heat and came in with a time of 1:05, a new "PR" (personal record), so she was very happy about that. Following the heat:



After that it was a very lengthy interval standing around in the sun watching the other races-- 200m, 800m, lots of sprints, you name it. Finally towards the end of the day it was time for the relays: photos from the girls 4x400. Lydia ran the first leg:




This race was not quit as much fun for Lydia's 4-girl team. The second runner got jostled coming out of the second turn, clipped her heel with an adjacent runner and fell. She got back up, grabbed the baton, and continued, but it didn't do much for the team's momentum. The next runner also had baton issues, alas.

The Diamond track team is a powerhouse, though, especially the girls squad. They don't win every event, but the depth and breadth of talent is such that they put up points in just about all the races. This meet was no exception; despite the troubles encountered by Lydia's group, the girls team overall applied their usual "wrecking ball" strategy and came out way in front of all the other schools (I think they finished with a 20 point margin).

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Five Borough Bike Tour in New York City

Rustin and I drove down to New York this last weekend to ride in the annual Five Boro Bike Tour (we were tempted to instead participate in the annual "No Pants Subway Ride", but common sense eventually won out and we opted for the biking). The original plan was for this to be a big group shindig including Pete, Rosana, and Blue, but they had to cancel on account of knee problems, so it was just Rustin and myself.

Slightly scary weather reports, but when we made the drive Saturday morning the weather was in fact lovely -- perfect spring weather, sunny and warm but not hot. We drove down to Greenwich Village to visit my cousin Sam and his wife Nikki and their daughter (now 1.5ish years old). It was a fine visit -- they made us a nice lunch and we sat around chatting while their ultra-caffeinated dog Ruby ran circles around the living room and hopped into everyone's laps. Sam's daughter is now at the age where she is chatty and likes to talk, but about half of what she says are utterances that only her parents can decode (I remember that phase from when my kids were little).

We then made our way down to the South Street Seaport area to collect our packets. Subway to Fulton St, then walked the rest of the way along the water. Here is a shot of Rustin with the Brooklyn Bridge along the way; lovely old pile of stone that it is (Rustin's not so bad either):



The packet pickup place was an absolute scrum-- huge lines of people waiting, but it was a cheerful crowd with everyone in good spirits, so it didn't really matter. This being the "post 911" era we had to show photo ID to pick our packets, which included a plastic placard to put on the front of your bike (which included the rider name), a Tyvek sheet to wear on your shirt (also with name) and then a helmet cover as well. Photos:



You can't see it from the photo above but in fact this it the middle of a very long, winding line that runs all the way around the expo center.


We eventually made it back to retrieve the car, drove back up to the upper west side, found a parking spot, and met up with my dad and Joanie at their apartment. For dinner we walked down to "Ouest" on 84th St; it was a nice meal.

The Five Boro bike ride is an enormous event these days-- 36000 riders, with the start staged into three "waves", starting at 7:30am. We were instructed to show up for the 3rd "wave"; the ticket said that we should arrive between 8:15 and 9, then prepare to actually bike at 9:15.

Sunday morning: up maybe a little later than I had expected (normally I wake up before 6am with or without an alarm, but this time I slept almost until 7), had a nice breakfast with Carey and Joanie, and then girded ourselves for the bike ride. Pre-race photo:



We decided that we would take the subway down most of the way and then bike once we got close enough. The ride was interesting-- there were five other people with bikes in the subway car, however there was also an extremely stinky homeless guy "sleeping it off" in one end of the car, so we were holding our noses the entire ride.

Upon emerging from the subway we were immediately confronted with a huge wave of riders streaming by -- and this wasn't even our "wave" (we had to then proceed further downtown to find the "end of the line").





We finally muddled our way south to find something that looked like it might resemble the end of the line, so we piled in and joined the crowd. Slow going at first -- we headed north on Church St (stop and go the whole time, mostly walking our bikes); it didn't turn into actual bike riding until we eventually reached 6th Avenue. At that point it was a little more fun.

It was a cool crowd to ride with -- every conceivable different age, race, body type, race, dress, you name it. There were people who looked ready to ride a "Tour De France" stage, people who looked as though they had just dug their bike out of the basement after leaving it there for a year, people with weird costumes and helmet ornaments, people speaking foreign languages, wheelchair riders, tandem riders-- pretty much everyone you can imagine was out there on a bike pedaling along.

From downtown up to midtown there were enormous crowds of people along the sides of the route-- it was clear from their expressions that the ride was a big surprise to many people. You could see them taking pictures and hear them exclaiming into their cell phones ("... you'll never believe how many bike riders there are out here on 6th ave..."). Unfortunately being New Yorkers there were also pedestrians who tried to cross the ride while it was in full stride (I suppose the thinking was "it's only bikes"), but of course once they got out into the middle of the street they realized what a ridiculous choice it was, and had to sort of inch forward with gritted teeth as thousands of riders zoomed by them on either side.

Here is a graphic of the ride map, extracted from one of the booklets on the race. Weirdly, this is about as specific they got with the maps -- maybe they were worried that if they published a detailed ride map people would try to join the ride illegally or that it would help someone planning a terrorist attack, who knows.




Sixth Ave eventually hit Central Park, so we plunged into the park and continued riding. This was a nice part of the ride, since everything was in bloom, and there were fewer crowds along the way. Not a lot of pictures from this section, I was too busy enjoying the ride.

From there it was north up into Harlem; at 138th St we turned to the east and headed over the Madison Avenue into the Bronx. After arriving in the Bronx we didn't stay long -- in fact only a little while later we hopped back on the 3rd Avenue bridge and re-entered Manhattan (I guess the people organizing the race decided that there wasn't all that much interesting to see in the Bronx). At that point we headed back down the east side of Manhattan, taking up the entire southbound lane of FDR drive. Lovely views off to the east of the Randall's Island, the East river, the bridges to the south, and of Queens. We eventually made it down to the Queensboro bridge (now the "Ed Koch Queensboro Bridge" I might add), where we head briefly into the interior of Manhattan and the back out up the ramp to the bridge.

Here we are on FDR Drive southbound, experiencing a slowdown / traffic jam prior to the bridge:







Once we got up onto the bridge it was much nicer -- the views from up there are fantastic.



Looking back towards Manhattan from the bridge:


Queens was nice, albeit a bit bumpy. The course eventually fed us into one of the rest areas (you had to actually wade your way through all the other people hanging our there to get to the rest of the course). The rest area was on the bank of the East River underneath the hulking Robert F Kennedy bridge (which takes the Grand Central parkway across from Queens to Randall's Island). It was kind of interesting to watch the river -- very strong flow of water to the north (must have been the tides?), strong enough so that the boats we saw had to really fight against it. Photos from the rest stop:










Next: south through Queens again, over the Pulaski bridge into Brooklyn. The route went into the big buildings in Brooklyn for a bit but mostly kept close to the water, so we got some more views of Manhattan. We went all the way down through Brooklyn until we hit the Red Hook neighborhood (or thereabouts) at which point we hopped onto none other than the BQE (Brooklyn-Queens Expressway). That was kind of a weird experience: the BQE is about as grim, crowded, and utilitarian a highway as you can imagine, the sort of road that you don't even think about getting onto in a car unless you absolutely have to... and here we were, thousands of brightly colored wobbly bikers just toodling along for the fun of it. Hah!

At the end of the BQE: the Verrazano Narrows Bridge.  Even having seen in many times in photographs, it still took my breath away to look at it up close and appreciate the scale of the monster-- it is truly immense. You wonder how it is that human beings could have created a thing so graceful but so enormous and strong. The ride up to the mid-point of the bridge was a slog (long slow climb, punctuated by annoying tour marshals telling us that we were not supposed to stop (?)).



View looking back at the bridge from the ferry:


The other end of the bridge was the official finish line, so there was another huge rest area with zillions of people milling around and taking in the various booths and offerings. Rustin and I decided not to stay long (the lure of free "stuff" was outweighed by the lure of finishing up and getting out of the saddle for good). From there we wound our way north through Staten Island and finally to the ferry terminal -- this portion was punctuated by a lot of stop-and-go sections where we had to wait around at the choke points. On the plus side we had many more lovely views of lower Manhattan and of the bridge off to the southeast.  The ferry ride back to Manhattan was cool-- I had never done it before. The boats are sizable but not the biggest I have ever been on (the ones out in Washington State going in and out of Seattle are bigger, ditto with the one I took back in the 90's from Germany to Denmark, where they actually put part of the train onto the ferry).

At Battery Park we decided to forgo the subway this time and instead just rode the bike path back up to the upper west side, another 8-9 miles. The bike path on the west side of Manhattan is amazing now -- almost unrecognizable given the number of improvements they have made to it in recent years. Great street markings, signage, and even little signal lights on the bike path for the bikers (which were completely ignored by at least half the bikers). Very pleasant.

Other impressions from the ride:

- there were huge numbers of bike crashes; it seemed as though every five minutes you would look over and see someone take a spill somewhere along the ride. I guess this makes sense given the crowding (riders packed in cheek by jowl) and the fact that many riders had never experienced riding in close with legions of other bikers.

- weather was great; sunny for almost the entire ride, with just a small sprinkle or two on the final stretch back up the west side of Manhattan

We finally rolled in at Joanie's apartment a bit before 5, which was later than I had originally envisioned (I actually told Amy that I thought we could make it back to Boston for dinner, oops). We got cleaned up, said our thank-yous and goodbyes to my dad and Joanie, and then hopped in the car for the drive back up to MA.  Not too much traffic on the freeway, thankfully. We did see the most amazing double rainbow off to the east as we were getting near New Haven -- brightest one I have seen in a really long time.


Flower Bed Har!


Amy and I visited the Boston MFA weekend before last; they had a special exhibit of flower arrangements. The person who came up with this one must have had a very specific pun in mind:


Yes, those are real flowers... in a bed ...flower bed? Gah, I get it.